A baby shower is primarily meant to give the new parents gifts that they need to take care of the baby. While some may argue that showering for the second time would be unnecessary as baby items may be handed down already, what’s most important in this second (or third) baby shower is the celebration in welcoming the new baby. Every baby needs to have that party, maybe not just for the gifts that the now toddler can already give, but the excitement and the thought of organizing a party to announce and anticipate his birth.
• The program can also be similar to that of the usual baby shower. Still with games, gift-giving and food to share – this baby shower should have the same energy and excitement just like any other shower that celebrates the upcoming birth of the baby.
• This time though, with the previous child already a toddler, or a little older by then, you can include some kids as well in the party, so make sure you have enough games, toys, or maybe even TV shows or DVD available for the kids.
• As to gifts, while it may seem unnecessary, a mom can never have too much diaper or toy around. Some gift suggestions are:
o Pacifiers
o Baby formula (if by this time you know that the parents switch to milk substitutes already)
o Clothing – particularly for the color. If the previous baby is a girl and now they’re having a boy, have blue clothings or blue baby items/toys instead.
o A car seat, is the first baby car seat is already worn out
o Wipes – you can never have too many of these
o New nursing supplies (Like a nursing pillow or a nursing pad)
o If the first child still uses a stroller, get a stroller big enough with the second baby in tow – a double stroller can do such a trick.
o New socks, bibs, wash cloths, and pajamas (items that wear out easily)
• Because mom may be a little stressed out already by this time, or if you feel there is enough baby item to go around, give mom-oriented gifts such as a trip to the spa or a romantic dinner. If mom’s in a great mood, baby will be in a great mood as well. Well, that works vice-versa anyway.
• For the one who organized the baby shower, for the equally tedious preparation (program, favors, etc), you can opt to give her or him a gift instead.
While some may be particular about the etiquette in hosting a second baby shower, you can always have a baby shower and have it as a good opportunity to gather friends around again. Maybe not for the gifts, maybe not as exciting as being a mom for the very first time, but for the second baby, a baby shower can mean a lot more than the gifts (or none) that was given – it is primarily a celebration of him coming to the world – and that is enough to make everyone really excited.
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